Many trees have been felled to produce pages which have been then filled with tips on how to get that perfect girl. Some of these tips might actually work- Like my book - How I got my girl back! A nerd's guide to dating. (Product placement bhi important hai bhai) But as far as I know, none of the books focus on how to identify that perfect girl for you. Any guy who "likes" a girl, wants to make her his. As ego boosting as it might be to get that girl, the important thing is to identify THAT perfect girl first.
Now there are some guys who want girls who have perfect legs and wear skirts, even if it is minus 15 degrees outside, or are really athletic or good at sports, or I dont know, have a tatoo or something. While there might be some guys who want girls like that, I think the chunk of 25-30 years guys (Also, the desperate group, I mean, if not now then when, if not you, then who?) would want old fashioned good girls. At least I want a good old fashioned girl. If you want a good old fashioned girl, read on. If you want a girl who drives a bike, and has 3 piercings on her body (two of which are not visible), colours her hair red every May, then I dont know what to tell you man, you are in for a roller coaster ride.
So, 10 ways how to know a girl is a good girl -
1. They are honest. Good girls are bad liars. They just are, maybe they have never had to lie, or they dont think anything is worth that much, but they never lie. Now how do you spot this trait? Talk to them. We live in a world in which anyone who tries to be honest will stand out. And you will know.
2. They are kind. You will never find them shouting/ordering anyone around. The waiter could mess up her order, the rickshawala could refuse to take her some place (that is rare, though), her subordinate might miss the deadlines, but she will never lose her cool.
3. They are sweet, for no particular reason. Their default mode is sweet. Having such girls around can make your life so much better. You have sales targets to complete, you just enter her cabin, she talks about her pet dog, and that can cheer you up, for the next couple of hours at least.
4. They are fond/proud of the men in their life. She's very proud of her father. She can spend hours talking about the bhindi ki sabzi he makes or his daal-rice. She will be proud of her brother, and super protective if she is the elder one.
5. They dress conservative. Not that they dont like dressing up, but I think they are just uncomfortable with attention and want less of it. What is considered conservative changes from time to time, and they change according to the time too, only, I think they are slightly behind the times. Not that I am complaining.
6. They have empathy. They can understand the pain of someone else which makes them more helpful than other girls. In fact this is how they make friends.
7. They cry in movies. It need not be during a romantic scene when the heroine keeps running and cant catch the train in which the hero is in, stretching his left hand half heartedly. They even cry when the grandparents have to leave their ancestral home when Chinai seth & his goons illegally take over.
8. They like pets/kids. They have an inherent need to care and kids and pets fulfill this need. So, if you as a man dont like pets or kids then you are in deep trouble.
9. They understand good humour. Which in other words means that they will laugh at your jokes provided you arent cracking jokes at the expense of her favourite actor, or one of the men she is super proud of.
10. They will make your life so much better. If you have that one good girl in your life, you will know coz your life will be so much better than it ever was.
I speak from experience, if you can find that one good girl, do everything to keep her. There are very few of them left and by some stroke of luck, or some good karma that you might have unknowingly gained, you have got a shot with her. Don't let the girl go.
Editor in chief Arshat Chaudhary
Current Issues: girls, How i got my girl back
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Vishakha said...
I loved this blog in particular because I liked your definition of a "perfect girl" .
After reading this blog,I hope many girls who try to be someone else just to "fit in" will think twice before doing so !! Thanks for sharing this awesome piece of blog with us!
Best wishes.
Medley of Many Things said...
NIce write up.
Ashish Gourav said...
I so wish that my senses are awake whenever I come across such a girl...and who likes tattoos anyways...
Unknown said...
a veey nice post sir......must say.......
have a humble request to you.....please write more often on the blog.......as ur post's are so goddamnnn goodd that one can't resist waiting........
Unknown said...
a very nice post sir......must say.......
have a humble request to you.....please write more often on the blog.......as ur post's are so goddamnnn goodd that one can't resist waiting........
Arshat Chaudhary said...
@Vishakha
I always had a feeling that you are a good girl. :)
@Pavithra
Thank you
@Ashish
All the best mate...
@Prasanth
Thanks for the kind words man.. :)
Anonymous said...
Read your blog after long long time..
Liked the post.. :)