A large part of our growing up years are spent wondering who will we finally end up with... I think girls spend more time manufacturing in their hearts, an image of the perfect one, based on Mills & Boons, SRK and Grey's Anatomy. Men, however, I think, have a vaguer idea of who that girl would be like. Because men dont have to move into a new house, or play to the whims and fancies of their in-laws, they tend to spend less time on this.
Less has been written about the right woman than it deserves. The market is full of books teaching men to get the girls they like, but nothing tells the women what is to be done to catch that catch. I am not the one who is going to tell them. I don't think I have enough authority over the subject. I havent given the topic, as I like to call it - enough 'brain hours' for me to know what women should do to get that one.
But what I CAN tell you is how a guys mind works and how, slowly but surely, she becomes the one! The one, he could fight for against the world. Love might be a beautiful word, but its manifestation is only through the fight you are going to put up for it.
So why is she the one? The one you would put up a fight for. Agaisnt the world. Against God, if the need be. What does she do? And why?
She reads up about the Game of Thrones, just to because you are having sleepless nights,
watching season 1 & 2 back to back. She gets excited, when you get excited, a silly show about flying Dragaons, maybe. But you like it, so she likes it. And winter is coming.
She learns to cook that one dish you tasted on your last business trip away. She doesnt like too much spice, but she knows that you like it, so she learns it anyway.
She forgets the mistakes, that late bill payment, not getting the car fixed before a road trip, she focuses on the good things, the choice of the flat screen TV, the tightened screws on the handle grip.
She thinks about you when she sees something that you might like, remembers your dates for you, your aunt and uncle'sbirthdays, and that teething nephew who now bites.
She's grateful about the things she has in her life. Never jealous of other women. For she knows, their journey might have been different. Different weather.
Your friends call you for advice....her, when they know they have screwed up. For you will tell them exactly that, but she will tell them that it will be alright. Then you wonder whose friends they really are. If you are the mind but she's the heart.
You are the ideal son, but deep inside your parents know that she is even better. They are happy that you are happy, happy for a skewd barter.
Bad days come and go, her smile always stays. She might be troubled inside, but you cant get through that maze. Her smile is a sight for sore eyes, the day has been tough, but she is still happy to see you. There's so much to say, but you just gaze.
Her honesty amazes you, sometimes confuses you. For your idea of honesty is more convenience and less virtue, you try to corrupt her too.
If such a girl you find, men harder than steel, cant keep from falling in love with her. I wouldnt think such a girl would exist, but I do, for I have known her. And I might be harder than most, but cant keep from falling in love with her.
I have said enough! :)
Less has been written about the right woman than it deserves. The market is full of books teaching men to get the girls they like, but nothing tells the women what is to be done to catch that catch. I am not the one who is going to tell them. I don't think I have enough authority over the subject. I havent given the topic, as I like to call it - enough 'brain hours' for me to know what women should do to get that one.
But what I CAN tell you is how a guys mind works and how, slowly but surely, she becomes the one! The one, he could fight for against the world. Love might be a beautiful word, but its manifestation is only through the fight you are going to put up for it.
So why is she the one? The one you would put up a fight for. Agaisnt the world. Against God, if the need be. What does she do? And why?
She reads up about the Game of Thrones, just to because you are having sleepless nights,
watching season 1 & 2 back to back. She gets excited, when you get excited, a silly show about flying Dragaons, maybe. But you like it, so she likes it. And winter is coming.
She learns to cook that one dish you tasted on your last business trip away. She doesnt like too much spice, but she knows that you like it, so she learns it anyway.
She forgets the mistakes, that late bill payment, not getting the car fixed before a road trip, she focuses on the good things, the choice of the flat screen TV, the tightened screws on the handle grip.
She thinks about you when she sees something that you might like, remembers your dates for you, your aunt and uncle'sbirthdays, and that teething nephew who now bites.
She's grateful about the things she has in her life. Never jealous of other women. For she knows, their journey might have been different. Different weather.
Your friends call you for advice....her, when they know they have screwed up. For you will tell them exactly that, but she will tell them that it will be alright. Then you wonder whose friends they really are. If you are the mind but she's the heart.
You are the ideal son, but deep inside your parents know that she is even better. They are happy that you are happy, happy for a skewd barter.
Bad days come and go, her smile always stays. She might be troubled inside, but you cant get through that maze. Her smile is a sight for sore eyes, the day has been tough, but she is still happy to see you. There's so much to say, but you just gaze.
Her honesty amazes you, sometimes confuses you. For your idea of honesty is more convenience and less virtue, you try to corrupt her too.
If such a girl you find, men harder than steel, cant keep from falling in love with her. I wouldnt think such a girl would exist, but I do, for I have known her. And I might be harder than most, but cant keep from falling in love with her.
I have said enough! :)
Editor in chief Arshat Chaudhary
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vijay said...
Beautifully written bro!!!
I wanted this post to prolong and end at the sametime. That's awesome!!!
Congratulations!!!
Happy for you :)
Vishakha Dahiya said...
i like how u have concluded everything with such a good note.Always been a fan of your blogs.
Vishakha said...
i like how u have concluded everything with such a good note.Always been a fan of your blogs.
Heena said...
How do u always know how women think or do? I connect with most of your blog posts..they r simple n superb..mast likha!!
Anonymous said...
Love it!
Santosh said...
Loved the "Love Letter" arshat. Congrates.
Santosh said...
Loved the "Love Letter". Congrayes.
Nupur said...
Wow!! After such a long wait, a typical Arshatish post!!
So glad to read first thing on a Friday morning :)
Nupur said...
Wow!! After such a long wait, a typical Arshatish post!!
So glad to read first thing on a Friday morning :)
Aanchal B said...
whoever that is... is sure gonna be the object of 'jealousy' for a lot of other women... good one arshat... like always!
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