If there was a way I could go back to the July of 2004 when I had just turned 19, in my second year of engineering, which till date remains my toughest year, what would I tell him? He’s at a tough time in his life already with over 4 hours of travelling to and fro to college and for the first time he’s not in the top 10% of his very intelligent class. And things are about to get worse from here on. I wish somehow I could go back and just, you know, tell him stuff that would make him believe that all of this will be alright.
1. The older you get, the wiser you will get. I know you think you know everything, and yes you do know quite a lot, but you will know more things when you are 25 and even more by you are 29.
2. Money can buy most things in life. But there are 3 things money cant buy. Good food, Good weather and Good women
3. Good food is fresh fruits, vegetables, there are very few countries in the world that have access to such food, yours is one of them. Good weather is rarer than good food. Good women are the rarest of the three.
4. I know how much you have heard about Germany and how much you want to visit. You will work for a German firm right out of Engineering college. And yes, you will end up living in Berlin. It is an amazing city.
5. You know that girl you liked in the 11th Standard but didn’t have the stomach to approach? She got fat. Not that weight is the right way to judge a girl, but it wasn’t exactly her personality you were after.
6. I know you don’t drink and you shouldn’t, not such a good habit. But you will learn to love and respect good Beer and Wine as a form of art that it is.
7. For as much as you hate Mumbai right now, the more you go around the world, the more you will come to love the place.
8. You will fall in love with Sour bread and Gouda cheese.
9. This year will be your life’s toughest year yet. I am 29 and I haven’t had a worse year that what the 19th would be.
10. But that’s alright. You know, easy years make for good memories, tough years make for good character
11. The older you get, fewer people will impress you, which is great, ‘cause that means you must be getting better
12. Remember how you wanted to buy a Skoda by the time you hit 28? Well, you didn’t buy a Skoda, but an even better car last year. And yes, it’s a German car.
13. You should exercise more, not to build biceps or anything, just to, generally keep fit. And anyway, I have found only 19 year old girls dig biceps. The rest you can charm with your stories.
14. Yeah, we write stories now. You will publish a novel, actually two. (Buy the second novel here)
15. You remember the World Cup last year? 2003? How sad that made you. Well, let me tell you this – We win the World Cup soon and that last ball six, I cant even… You have to watch it dude. It gave me Goosebumps
16. You are not going to have a girlfriend. Not till you are out of Engineering. Don’t feel bad, it’s mechanical Engineering dude! What did you think? Think of this time as batting on a crumbling pitch, if you can play this out, you will score on your day.
17. You will buy a lake-facing house. It’s beautiful.
18. You will lose some hair and some of the others will grow grey but with each passing year they would bother you less than they did the previous year.
19. The older you get the better you are going to get at charming women. You know that pretty girl in Computer Science you think is out of your league? You will manage to woo women way hotter than her, like wayyyy hotter.
20. You will fall in love with your parents with every passing year. You will come to see them more as human beings susceptible to making mistakes. You will realize they did the best job they could do.
21. You remember that girl from school you used to find cute? Well, she’s still out of your league.
22. And btw, you married her. It is awesome. But still, out of your league
23. Petrol will become three times as expensive in the next decade
24. I know how much you love the Reebok brand. You have so many Tshirts and shoes. The 29 year old you doesn’t own a single Reebok product. Sorry, I just grew out of it.
25. Enjoy your jeans and Tshirts. Casual Friday is a big deal when you start working.
26. You know how you wish you weren’t so shy? Well, you have made some amazing friends. Some of them would give their lives for you. The amazing part is, for all your selfishness, you would too.
27. If I told you my salary, you are gonna freak out. But don’t, remember what I told you about petrol? Everything’s more expensive in 2014.
28. You will visit more than 13 countries.
29. No matter what you think about life right now, if you keep at it, earnestly, it would get better. Much better than you ever imagined. Life is tough, 19 is a good age to realize it.
So thank you for everything you have done till now. Right now, I wouldn’t wanna be you but I wouldn’t be me, if at some point in my life I hadn’t been you. So, thank you.
Editor in chief Arshat Chaudhary
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Abhijit V. Deshpande said...
Nice dude... good way to thank Someone about your life... there is one advise I would add for any of my (or yours for that matter) previous selves...
- Remember, the best is yet to come...
Cheers!!
Abhijit V. Deshpande said...
Nice dude... good way to thank Someone about your life... there is one advise I would add for any of my (or yours for that matter) previous selves...
- Remember, the best is yet to come...
Cheers!!
Sarim Zaidi said...
Yes i did read that ;), and could relate to my19thself for most of them...yeah i am almost 25 to realise the rest. Amazing blog :)
S said...
I smiled through the entire post :)
And you actually remember all those girls from school/college?! :P
Giving gyaan to the younger self after having crossed all the tough times. . . how about writing such a letter to your future older self? :)
Rashmi C R said...
Beautifully written :)
Rashmi C R said...
Beautifully written! :)